I didn't know stress until I got engaged. It is suppose to be the most beautiful time, and it really...just isn't. I love my fiance, no doubt and my stress has nothing to do with him. But, my stress lies with everyone else. Sometimes people just do not understand that yes I am marrying a man in the military...yes I am on his time, not yours or my own.
Also, everyone has their nose in everything, or they want too. The line I have used most frequently is "It is my wedding, not yours". As offensive as it may be to some people, it is the truth. The plain truth. Yes I need help, but when I don't ask for your help...most likely I don't want it. Also, if I don't ask for your opinion...I most likely don't want it. So that should be your biggest hint. You do your thing I will do mine.
I've seen some of my own friends stick up their nose to my decisions about my wedding or ideas I may have...like what in the world is your deal? I do not criticize your ideas or your plans...I could honestly care less. I am simply just happy for you and whatever you are doing.
I am sure most brides go through this...they deal with opinionated friends,family, and etc.
I want the same thing everyone else wants to know....I would like to know the date of my wedding, I would love to know if Daniel is getting deployed of if hes staying in the states..I would love to know all of these things. But I don't, sorry! Your guess is as good as mine.
Yes I will probably have a month to plan a wedding, yes I will need help. If you think its to last minute...don't come, problem solved. I know people that love me and Daniel will be there to support us, and I love you all for it.
On the upside of my venting...I bought a wedding dress. I am in love with it, and I cannot wait for Daniel to see me in it. It is timeless if I say so myself.
I hope everyone has a good day and will learn to just keep their opinion to themselves for once....or maybe twice.
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