Wedding Bells

Being engaged means a lot of talk about your upcoming wedding day...

I have realized everyone wants their opinion and wants to it to be heard. Everyone has their own style and everyone has their ideas they want to throw in. Now as a new bride I am very ready for new ideas. I have learned to not ask for them though, not anymore.

Because then people think that you want their opinion all the time...this is not true.

Now if anyone knows me, they will say I am probably pretty determined and very stubborn. I have my own ideas and my own opinions. The great thing about getting married in the end of the day, the wedding is for me and Daniel, not everyone else. The power of saying no is wonderful, oh so wonderful.

Now I am usually pretty confrontational. I am always going to tell you no or that I don't like something or the opposite I love it and yes go for it. I never vary much.

But in wedding planning I have become quite less confrontational because i've got more important things on my mind, like Daniel and our future besides this wedding.

Now, I think today is a new day, no more pushing me around and trying to tell me what I should do or what "we can" do. Nope, our wedding...not yours. Our big day...not yours.

If I want your opinion...I will ask for it. If I ask and I still don't agree, so what, get over it. I am just needing people to learn their place in this whole experience.

You can get all huffy and catch an attitude with me, I really don't care, it just makes me want to X you out of all the planning and if you do give me attitude I will probably do just that. So be prepared.

I never had this problem, but apparently I do. Trust me people...I don't need your attitude or millions of opinions about my wedding day. I would hire a wedding planner if I really needed it that bad.