Honesty is the Best Policy!

So if anyone really knows me, they know me and my fathers relationship is no walk in the park. I don't have a problem sharing this, because it isn't a secret or not like anyone else hasn't walked this walk.

But tonight my father was in rare form..and of course we shared words...which is normal. I can't resist talking back, YES I do know we aren't suppose to talk back to our parents...but live in my house for a day and you'll take back, and quick.

But what he said was " I am always tip toeing around you now..." followed by some blah blah blah.

Well people, no need to tip toe around me. I am not dumb, and I can handle my crap. Im handling it now, and in all honesty, im handling it DAMN well. Excuse my french.

This is a NEW experience for me, give me a while to work my way into my new normal, okay? I'll get use to it, pinky promise. But before you go making comments like that...think twice.

Because I WILL react, and you will NOT like it.
I reacted to my father...and he didn't like it, because it was the truth. I commented back and said You don't have to tip toe around me....you aren't around me enough to tip toe.

It was the truth...and I have no problem letting him know. Or anyone know for that fact.

Don't pity me or make fun of me because I miss my future husband...don't judge my situation until you've walked a mile in my shoes. When you have, get back to me.

Also, while im on my rampage right now. People that think they are above and beyond others...you are so wrong. I don't need to hear any statistic about how my marriage may or may not work. I also, don't need you to tell me how different Daniel is going to be when he gets back.

YES he will be different but for the better, and YES I will still love him despite the changes, nothing changes true love. So again...if you want to feed my the BS about being married to a military man, try again. I love mine, with my entire being.

So to all of you military wives, fiances, girlfriends...you are the best...you can do this. As can I.

So HMPH!

Like I said, honesty is the best policy...and I am sticking to it!